Some relationships struggle due to discrepancies in proactivity between partners. In a recent blog post, I talked about how a proactivity...

Recently, I have seen several relationships end due to discrepancies in proactivity. In these dynamics, one partner takes on more...

The fallout of realizing an affair can be like experiencing a natural disaster. When I work with clients who have come to me just after...

Nourishing relationships can shelter us through difficulties and free up space for us to pursue what is important. Draining relationships...

One of the greatest hopes of couple therapy is that partners would be able to develop what attachment researchers refer to as a secure...

Are you considering moving in with your partner? Taking the step to move in together in a romantic relationship can represent something...

Recently, I have been advising new couples in therapy to get comfortable with the idea that their relationship could end one day. This...

Your partner went through your phone! Yikes! It’s normal to feel violated, confused, sad, and angry. For some of us, finding out this has...